The love language of Bridgerton: how floriography is trending again

The love language of Bridgerton: how floriography is trending again

Discover the Regency-era trend of sending secret messages with flowers, a Bridgerton-style love language.


During the Regency era of British history (c.1795 - 1837), flowers were not just a pretty emblem with lack of value. Instead, flowers were at the cusp of something bigger. This is the time in which the use of flowers to convey thoughts and messages, also known as floriography, began to find its way into society.

A flower’s numerous connotations and variations of sentiments were used to portray a range of feelings, set social stances, convey an agreement, and disagreements too. Not only was floriography prevalent during the Regency era, but it undoubtedly paved the way for the later and well-known Victorian era 'language of flowers' phenomenon.

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Lonicera Periclymenum Serotina A scented deciduous honeysuckle for early summer. It produces pink and white flowers and attracts wildlife. Photo: Jason Ingram
Honeysuckle was used to convey 'chains of love' in the Regency-era. © Jason Ingram

And we could not talk of Regency era flowers without the mention of the highly popular television series, Bridgerton. The show, set in the Regency-era, displays a brilliant and grand mix of historical floral trends coupled with an accurate use of flowers to convey messages, and especially to highlight a character’s unique disposition or current situation.

For example, in the show’s last season, yellow roses were used in Penelope Featherington’s bridal bouquet for her wedding to Colin Bridgerton. This was a fun and interesting nod to floriography since the yellow rose represents the sentiment 'friendship,' which was the basis of her and Colin’s relationship. Additionally, Colin wore a silver tussie-mussie of delphinium pinned to his lapel on his wedding day, which was a perfect statement, as delphinium represents 'sweetness.'

Flowers feature heavily in Bridgerton, with the wisteria covering the front of the Bridgerton family home drawing huge attention in the first season. The show is so closely connected to florals, that Netflix even sponsored a Bridgerton Garden at the RHS Chelsea Flower Show in 2024.

A garden with a tree and flowers
Holly Johnston’s Bridgerton Garden at the RHS Chelsea Flower Show 2024 featured a moongate, sunken seating area with fountain and beautiful country-garden planting to create a soothing atmosphere. © Vikki Rimmer

One of the first formal floral dictionaries written to translate flowers into a secret language was Le Langage des Fleurs, written by the French writer Charlotte de la Tour, a pseudonym for Louise Cortambert, in 1819. De le Tour’s work made floriography widely accessible throughout Europe, and some of the Regency era’s most popular flowers such as roses, lilacs, daisies, pansies, violets, forget-me-nots, and hollyhocks commenced their venture into floriography - conveying a secret language.

Rosa chinensis, also known as Bengal Rose or Bengal Crimson or Bengal Beauty, is a member of the genus Rosa that is native to southwest China in the provinces of Guizhou, Hubei, and Sichuan. Flensburg in July 202
Red roses symbolised passionate love. Pictured here is Rosa chinensis. © Getty / Ventura Carmona

In addition to the standard and primary meanings of flowers, the distinct color of a flower would convey further messages such as a yellow carnation for rejection, an English daisy for innocence, and a red rose for passionate love, or a yellow rose, which meant jealousy and infidelity, as well as friendship.

A deeper dive into floriography reveals that cultivars of certain flowers held deeper symbolism. This was significant when a person needed to get more specific in their communication. During this time cultivars were limited, but if one could obtain particular roses, it would have boosted their messaging. Such as dog roses symbolising 'pleasure mixed with pain' and China roses showing 'lasting beauty.'

Bridgerton. (L to R) Luke Newton as Colin Bridgerton, Nicola Coughlan as Penelope Featherington in episode 302 of Bridgerton. Cr. Laurence Cendrowicz/Netflix © 2024

Whatever the era, flowers are more than beauty and have been throughout history an instrumental diversion to small-talk, and without words, can convey our inner thoughts and feelings to others. Today’s interest in the language of flowers continues to rise and most importantly, we are learning to use this secret language in many ways, including in our gardens and specific layouts and designs to include floral symbolism.

Classic Regency-era flowers and their meanings

Daffodils

© Jason Ingram

Daffodils could be used to convey the sentiment 'I regard you.'

Gloxinia

Blooming pink Gloxinia or Sinningia speciosa, ornamental plant flower, macro photo with selective focus
Blooming pink Gloxinia. © Getty / DedMityay

This was used to show 'a proud spirit.'

Primrose

Primulas
Primula © Maayke de Ridder

The primrose was symbolic of 'consistency.'

Ivy

The Hill Garden and Pergola in Hampstead on a sunny summer day, London, England, UK
Ivy in Hampstead, London. © Getty / Alexander Spatari

Ivy was used to demonstrate 'fidelity.'

Columbine

Columbine Aquilegia
Columbine © Jason Ingram

Columbine was used to tell someone 'I cannot give thee up.'

Sweet William

Sweet William flowers in a summer garden
Sweet William flowers in a summer garden © Getty / agatchen

Sweet Williams were used to convey the message 'grant me one more smile.'

Morning Glory

Morning Glories
Colourful Morning Glories © Getty / Susan Thompson Photography

The traditional message behind Morning Glory was 'affection.

Musk rose

Rosa moschata flowers
Rosa moschata flowers © Getty / Fiorelynn

Musk rose was used to convey the sentiment 'you are charming.'

Delphinium

Flower bed with beautiful blooming blue delphinium flowers against a background of roses in the garden in summer.
Flower bed with blue delphinium flowers. © Getty / brytta

Delphinium was used to represent 'sweetness.'

Rugosa, dog rose

Rosa rugosa dog rose
Rosa rugosa © Andrew Maybury

This plant was used to convey the idea of 'pleasure mixed with pain.'

Words: Teresa Sabankaya

USEFUL INFORMATION

Teresa Sabankaya is the author of two books on floriography, The Posy Book (2019), and the upcoming (March 10, 2026) Modern Floriography: Flowers, Gardens, and Gifts Inspired by the Language of Flowers.

Both books can be ordered anywhere books are sold or on Teresa’s website at teresasabankaya.com

The first part of Bridgerton Season 4 is released on 29 January 2026.

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